Ryder Gillotti

Ryder Joseph Gillotti

Wednesday, March 8th, 2000 - Wednesday, October 2nd, 2019
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WARREN – Ryder Joseph Gillotti, 19, passed away unexpectedly on October 2, 2019. He was the beloved son of Joseph Gillotti and Ina Barr.

Ryder was born in New Milford on March 8, 2000 and grew up in Warren. He was a 2018 graduate of WAMOGO High School and was currently attending Naugatuck Valley Community College and managed the Warren General Store.

Ryder was very bright and had a passion for the finer things in life. His passion was the love of his cars. He was very determined and worked hard to obtain something that he set his mind to.

In addition to his mother, Ina, and his father, Joseph; he is survived by his two brothers, Hunter, and his fiancée, Ashley Ross, and Carter; his sister, Skylar; his maternal grandmother, Ina Jalbert; his paternal grandmother, Marianne Albert; and several aunts, uncles, cousins, his best friend, Jared Lago and many other friends. He was predeceased by his maternal grandfather, Kenneth Barr.

A funeral service will be held at 11 a.m. on Friday, October 11 at Warren Congregational Church, 4 Sackett Hill Road, Warren. Burial will be private. Calling hours will be held from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m. on Thursday, October 10, at Thurston Rowe Funeral Home, 283 Torrington Road, Litchfield.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in Ryder’s memory to American Foundation for Suicide Prevention at
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  • Visitation

    Thursday, October 10th, 2019 | 4:00pm - 7:00pm
    Thursday, October 10th, 2019 4:00pm - 7:00pm
    Thurston Rowe Funeral Home
    283 Torrington Road
    Litchfield, CT 06759
    Get Directions: View Map | Text | Email
  • Funeral Service

    Friday, October 11th, 2019 | 11:00am
    Friday, October 11th, 2019 11:00am
    Warren Congregational Church
    4 Sackett Hill Rd.
    Warren, CT 06754
    Get Directions: View Map | Text | Email
    Rev. Gary Kitchin


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Posted at 11:35pm
Hard working kid. Loved hanging out with his Father.
My heart is dimmed by Ryder’s sudden passing. Yet my heart is full knowing in the future he can be with his family and loved ones forever.
Ryder will be missed for a brief history in time.

I love you Joe, big hugs to ya brother.


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Posted at 09:58pm
We are thinking of you and sending our prayers to all of you during this difficult time. Our sincerest condolences, Hank, Sandie and Niki Taylor
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Frannie Caco

Posted at 04:14pm
Reminiscing with my children about all the fun times playing with Ryder and his brothers Carter and Hunter (Skylar was just a twinkle at that time).
The most vivid memory was when Ryder was two years old. My two year old son had cracked his head open and needed stitches. As she often did, Ina came to the rescue with her boys. She watched the children (mine, hers and Kathe's) and I headed to the emergency department.
My family had just received a new vacuum toy. Ryder fell in love with it. He vacuumed my entire house while I was gone. When I returned, he did not want to stop. He wanted that vacuum. And, when I child wants to help clean, you let him clean.
So, we gave Ryder the vacuum. You have never seen such a happy boy holding a vacuum. His smile was huge!
Best part, when he got the vacuum home, he vacuumed his entire house too. Well, at least until bedtime.
Ryder was a kind soul. He will be greatly missed by all the lives he touched.
May this memory give your family a smile and perhaps laughter.
Love, Prayers, Strength & Hope,
The Caco Crew

Connor Nagy

Posted at 11:44am
Joe, my family and I are so sorry for your loss. Know that our prayers are with you in this difficult time. God bless you and your family.
With love,

The Nagy Family

Carole Fechteler

Posted at 10:20am
We are so very sorry for your loss.

Carole and Frank Fechteler

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