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John De Lello

John Anthony De Lello

Sunday, July 5th, 1970 - Tuesday, January 7th, 2020
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John Anthony De Lello, aged 49 of Morris, CT, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, January 7, 2020 surrounded by his loving family.

John was born on July 5, 1970 in Yonkers, NY. He began his career in Denver, CO as a mechanic and then over the last 20 years as the owner of Delware Software Solutions. On March 21, 1998, he married Alison Bennett in Worksop, England. Residing in Morris, CT for the last 18 years, they raised two sons, Ryan and Joshua. John was a well-known figure in the community and served on the Region 6 Board of Education from 2013 to 2015 and as a volunteer with Tri Town Little League.

John’s biggest love was being a father and husband. He loved nothing more than cheering on his sons at their sporting events, rarely missing a game. John was happiest spending time practicing soccer, baseball and basketball with his sons in the back yard. He enjoyed watching Premier league soccer and attending Yankees games. He recently found the recipe for happiness was watching The Great British Bake off with his great British bride, Alison. He loved to travel with his family - spending summers boating on Lake Winnipesaukee, road tripping across the US, and most recently to Cancun. He passed along his love for cars to his son Ryan and they could be found working alongside one another on Ryan’s Mustang in the garage. John’s spent many happy hours with his son Josh whether it was casting their lines fishing or pitching for batting practice. He would find any excuse to spend time with his boys. He was an avid reader and writer and will be remembered for his quick wit, his boundless energy, his generous spirit and welcoming presence.

John is survived by his wife Alison and their children, Ryan and Joshua. He will be missed by his parents John and Lillian De Lello of Manchester NJ, his sister Maria & brother-in-law Michael Ross of Raleigh, North Carolina, sister Gina & brother-in-law Richard Corrado of Hopewell Junction NY, Uncle Paul De Lello of Dover Plains, NY and Aunt Amelia Tobin of Wingdale, NY as well as nieces, nephews and a community of friends.

A celebration of his life will be held on Sunday, January 12th at Thurston Rowe Funeral Home, 283 Torrington Road in Litchfield from 1 p.m. to 3 p.m. with a service of remembrance at 3 p.m. A gathering will follow at the Litchfield Community Center at 421 Bantam Road in Litchfield. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to CFC or Tri Town Youth Baseball, PO Box 2, Litchfield CT 06759.
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  • Life Celebration

    Sunday, January 12th, 2020 |
    When
    Sunday, January 12th, 2020
    Location
    Thurston Rowe Funeral Home
    Address
    283 Torrington Road
    Litchfield, CT 06759
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    A celebration of his life will be held on Sunday, January 12th at Thurston Rowe Funeral Home, 283 Torrington Road in Litchfield from 1 p.m. to 3 p.m. with a service of remembrance at 3 p.m. A gathering will follow at the Litchfield Community Center, 421 Bantam Road in Litchfield.

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Dana Jurkovic

Posted at 01:31pm
I knew John through ComputerWorks of Chicago where he did programming for us. A few years back, one of our customers was having problems, and I was on the phone with John for quite a while figuring it out. During that time we got to chat, and although it was a rough call, we both would break things up with some jokes here and there so even though it was a serious matter, it was a pleasant call. He had a quick wit. He also attended the weekly development meetings that I also attend so he was part of many of our lives over here for years and years. I know he will be sorely missed by all of us who worked with him. Knowing that he made such a positive impact on me though just knowing him at work, I can only imagine how incredibly difficult this must be for his family, friends and community. He will be missed. My thoughts are with you as you celebrate his life and legacy. -- Dana Jurkovic
 
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Alison Posted at 11:18pm

Thank you for your kind words, Alison & the boys
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With all our love - Bill, Cora, Matt, Tom and Alli

Posted at 08:19pm
May your hearts and souls find peace and comfort. We are so sorry for your loss.
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Peter and Roseann payne

Posted at 08:13am
We are thinking of you during this difficult time. Our deepest condolences.
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J. Ziebart

Posted at 09:54pm
John was smart, funny and a joy to work with. He will be missed. My condolences!
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Donna

Posted at 05:05pm
I am SO sorry. Our deepest heartfelt condolences go out to you, Ryan, Josh and your entire families. As a mother of three boys and a mom of Tri-town, I want to personally express the overwhelming sympathy I have for you & your family. I am the mother of Evan, Ian (& Ava) Fischthal of baseball and Litchfield School system. I would LOVE to extend my home, my help, meals, whatever you may need at such a devastating time and would love to offer a hand to you and your family in any way you may need. I live in Bantam and I have plenty of space, a kitchen that never closes and an ear and open arms. I lost my eldest son (Kyle) to Leukemia and believe me, I understand shock, loss and devastation. I am HERE FOR YOU! WE ARE HERE FOR YOU & YOUR BOYS. If you need ANYTHING, pls call or text with ZERO hesitation. 860-733-2375! Sending much love, support and strength during such an impossible time!
Lovingly,
Donna Zabit (Fischthal)
 
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Alison Posted at 11:18pm

Thank you so much x
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